Ideas for Change
For Helpers, Dreamers, and Doers
Welcome to Ideas for Change, a space for stories, reflections, and tools to help you step into balance, breathe with intention, and live with joy. Every post is a little invitation to pause, think, and take another step towards the life you want.
Mental Health at Work: 10 Actionable Tips
Is that hurried sandwich at your desk really saving you time, or are you just one "reply all" away from a total meltdown? From the chaos of aid work to the reality of the daily grind, here are 10 practical ways to reclaim your sanity at work - even while we wait for the rest of the world to catch up.
Rugby, Rain, and Resilience: 6 Life Lessons from the Pitch
What a wet morning at a junior rugby match taught me about resilience, the fear of failure, and why we need to stop being "all-or-nothing" with our goals.
Is calling your mum ‘productive’?
A reflection on productivity, time, and the quiet beliefs that shape what we think “counts” - and why calling your mum might be more productive than you think.
Magical toilet trips (no, I haven’t lost it)
A reflection on parenting, travel, and the quiet magic that can appear when plans go sideways and you step off the path.
Stuck in a Decision Spiral? Try This Instead
Making big decisions can leave you stuck in overthinking and self-doubt. This post explores different decision-making styles - and two simple tools to help you decide with more clarity, confidence, and self-trust.
Ready to Make Some Bad Decisions?
We make an astonishing number of decisions every day - some tiny, some life-altering. When it comes to the big ones, it’s easy to get stuck in endless loops of doubt, second-guessing, and regret. This is my take on decision-making, bad outcomes, and why I don’t believe in “wrong” decisions at all…
What could possibly go wrong...?
Let's talk about catastrophising and the real meaning of 'half-life'...
Should You Make Resolutions? I Genuinely Don’t Care.
Every January comes with a suspicious amount of advice about how you should start the year. This is not that. This is a calm, unofficial, deeply unscientific reflection on resolutions, honesty, and finding your bearings - without turning self-improvement into self-punishment.
How to Prepare for Scary and Important Conversations
Some conversations matter more than others - medical appointments, difficult meetings, job interviews, and those dreaded “we need to talk” moments. In this piece, I share what I learned while preparing for a genuinely high-stakes medical conversation, and the practical ways I resource myself so I can think clearly, stay grounded, and show up as my best self.
Do this for me today (it’ll make your heart happy)
It’s my birthday, and I have one wish - pick up the phone and call someone. Trust me.
4 Things I Learned From My Dad (Hint: It Involves Champagne and a Wardrobe)
Some parents teach their kids life skills. Mine taught me how to win at complaining, outwit wooden puzzles, and BBQ in winter.
Can you choose not to suffer?
Ever thought a stadium's bag policy could lead to a deep dive into Acceptance and Commitment Therapy? Neither did I. Yet, here I am, turning a handbag hassle into a life lesson on embracing reality and managing chronic pain. Join me on this unexpectedly enlightening journey from football fan frustrations to psychological flexibility.
How time blocking will change your life
Part Four of my simple and practical guide to making time for the things that matter most.
Making time blocking work for you
Part Three of my simple and practical guide to making time for the things that matter most.
Start time blocking in six simple steps
Part Two of my simple and practical guide to making time for the things that matter most.
I spent three years using ‘time blocking’ to manage my time
It changed my life. Here's my step-by-step guide to using time blocking to change yours.
What are the five best life lessons you’ve learned?
In this article I share my five best life lessons (probably!) - what are yours?
When is the second best time to rebalance your life?
If you’ve got great plans for your life, but you’re just waiting til the time is right…you should probably read this. Right now.
Do you ever feel like you're just, generally...failing?
If you’re trying to do ALLLL the things, but feel like you’re not doing any of them particularly well, read on…
Feeling stuck? Here are three sure-fire ways to move past your blocks…
Are you feeling stuck? Stuck in your job, stuck in your ways, stuck in your relationships, stuck in your…life? Don’t worry, help is at hand…